Stress Reduction and Healthy Habits During the Holidays: A Guide to Rest, Relaxation, and Wellness


Holiday Wellness!

Looking to maintain wellness during the hectic holiday season? A Nurse Practitioner shares nine proven strategies for reducing stress and staying healthy while enjoying the festivities. From setting boundaries to practicing mindfulness, discover practical tips for finding balance and peace during this busy time of year.


The holiday season is a time for celebration, connection, and joy, but it can also bring a significant amount of stress. Between holiday shopping, family gatherings, and preparing meals, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. As a Nurse Practitioner, I often see patients struggle to balance their health and wellness with the demands of the season. The good news is, with a few simple strategies, you can reduce stress, maintain healthy habits, and still enjoy the festivities.

Here are some practical tips to help you stay mindful, practice self-care, and prioritize relaxation during this busy time of year.

1. Set Realistic Expectations and Boundaries

The holidays often come with high expectations. Whether it’s hosting a perfect dinner, buying the “perfect” gift, or attending every event, these pressures can create unnecessary stress. Start by setting realistic expectations for yourself and communicating boundaries to others. It’s okay to say no to invitations if you’re feeling stretched too thin. Prioritize your mental and physical health by making space for activities that genuinely bring you joy and relaxation.

Tip: Try a simple phrase like, “I would love to, but I need to rest this weekend,” or “I’m taking a break to focus on self-care.”

2. Incorporate Mindfulness and Meditation into Your Day

The holiday season can feel like a whirlwind, but taking just 5-10 minutes a day for mindfulness or meditation can help reduce stress and improve your overall well-being. Deep breathing, guided meditations, or simply focusing on the present moment can help calm your mind and bring you back to a place of peace.

Tip: Use a free app like Headspace, Calm, or Insight Timer to guide you through short, effective meditation sessions. Even 5 minutes of deep breathing can make a noticeable difference in your stress levels.

3. Prioritize Rest and Sleep

It’s easy to let sleep take a backseat during the holidays, especially when there’s so much to do. However, sleep is essential for physical and mental health. Lack of rest can make it harder to manage stress and can even weaken your immune system, leaving you more susceptible to illness. Aim for 7-9 hours of sleep each night, and try to keep a consistent sleep schedule, even amidst the holiday hustle and bustle.

Tip: Create a calming bedtime routine—limit screen time an hour before bed, dim the lights, and try reading a book or listening to calming music to prepare your body for rest.

4. Practice Healthy Eating Habits

It’s tempting to indulge in all the delicious holiday treats, but overconsumption of sugar and rich foods can lead to feelings of fatigue, irritability, and bloating. While it’s important to enjoy special foods in moderation, aim to maintain a balanced diet that includes plenty of fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains. This will help keep your energy levels up and your immune system strong.

Tip: Try to fill half your plate with vegetables at each meal, and drink plenty of water to stay hydrated. If you’re attending a party, consider bringing a healthy dish to share!

5. Stay Active (But Don’t Overdo It)

Exercise is a proven stress-reliever, but the holidays often disrupt our routines. Even if you can’t hit the gym every day, try to incorporate small bursts of activity into your day. Whether it’s a brisk walk in the neighborhood, a few yoga stretches, or a fun class, movement can help release endorphins and improve your mood.

Tip: Consider starting each morning with a short stretching or yoga session. It’s a great way to center yourself and set a positive tone for the day ahead.

Quick Wellness Check-In

Feeling overwhelmed by holiday commitments? Try the 3-3-3 rule: take three deep breaths, list three things you can postpone, and identify three activities that recharge you. Remember, taking care of yourself isn't selfish—it's essential for enjoying the season fully.

6. Engage in Meaningful Connection, Not Over-Scheduling

The holidays are a time to connect with loved ones, but sometimes, too many social commitments can leave you feeling drained. Instead of attending every gathering, choose the ones that align with your values and where you can be your authentic self. Spending quality time with family or friends is far more beneficial than running around trying to please everyone.

Tip: Set aside time for activities that help you reconnect with yourself, like journaling, a quiet walk, or simply sitting with a cup of coffee and a good book (My personal favorite). This alone time is crucial for mental clarity and emotional balance.

7. Don’t Forget to Laugh

Laughter is one of the best natural stress relievers. Whether it’s watching a funny holiday movie, sharing jokes with friends, or reminiscing with family, laughter can instantly lift your mood and reduce tension.

Tip: Make time to engage in lighthearted activities—play a board game, watch a comedy show, or just be silly with your loved ones.

8. Seek Professional Help if Needed

Sometimes, despite our best efforts, holiday stress can become overwhelming. If you find yourself feeling persistently anxious, sad, or burnt out, it’s important to reach out to a healthcare provider. Speaking with a therapist or counselor can provide valuable strategies for managing stress and maintaining emotional balance.

Tip: If you’re experiencing severe stress or mood changes, don’t hesitate to reach out to our team. It’s always okay to ask for support.

9. Embrace Gratitude and Reflection

Amid the chaos of the season, taking a moment each day to reflect on what you’re grateful for can help shift your focus away from stress and towards positivity. Consider starting a gratitude journal where you write down three things you’re thankful for each day.

Tip: Gratitude practices can help improve overall well-being, promote positive thinking, and enhance your mental resilience.

Final Thoughts: A Season of Balance

The holidays don’t have to be a source of stress and burnout. Remember, it is ok to say “No”, protect your boundaries.  With mindful practices, healthy habits, and a focus on rest and relaxation, you can maintain your physical and mental well-being while still enjoying the season. Remember, the holidays are about connection—both with others and with yourself.  By taking the time to care for your mind and body, you’ll be better equipped to fully embrace the joy and beauty of the season.

 

Wishing you all a peaceful, joyful, and stress-free holiday season!

 

Ashley Shea, DNP, AGNP, MSCP

Ashley Shea, DNP, AGNP, MSCP, is a certified nurse practitioner specializing in primary care and women's health. With over a decade of experience, she earned her Doctorate from the University of Cincinnati and is certified by the North American Menopause Society. At Concierge Medicine of Cincinnati, Dr. Shea provides comprehensive care for patients of all genders, emphasizing patient education and prevention. A Cincinnati native, she balances her passion for healthcare with family life and community involvement.

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